Talking to children about cancer
For people with cancer and their families
We know that talking to children about cancer can be challenging. It can be hard to know what to say. You may not know how the child will react.
We can help you find information and support from trusted resources. These resources can give you tips and strategies to help you talk to children about cancer.
Here are some tips and strategies*:
- Think about what you want to say. Practice saying it ahead of time. Try to use simple and direct words.
- Allow the child to ask questions. Use this time to correct any wrong information.
- Give comfort and reassure the child they will be taken care of. Let them know you are here for them if they have questions.
These questions have been adapted from the Canadian Cancer Society. Original article: https://cancer.ca/en/living-with-cancer/coping-with-changes/talking-about-cancer/talking-to-children-about-cancer
Websites
Patient and Family Support (Odette Cancer Centre)
Talking to children about cancer (Canadian Cancer Society)
Talking with Children and Youth about Serious Illness (Canadian Virtual Hospice)
Talking to Children about Your Cancer (National Cancer Institute)
Talking to children and teenagers (Macmillan Cancer Support)
Telling a Child Someone They Love Has Cancer (American Cancer Society)
Talking with Children and Youth About Serious Illness (AWC Grief Support)
When a Parent has Cancer (University Health Network)
Talking with Children about Cancer (Lakeridge Health)